Today I want to talk about anal sex toys, because as you know, I’m on a mission to convert the masses to butt sluts. And once you have felt the sensation that some of these toys can deliver- well, I know you’re mine. I sold sex toys- its how I put myself through my masters, actually. But my interest in sex toys begin much earlier in my early college days. Prior to that, I was honestly just sticking random things up my vag to get off. Country girls making do and whatnot, you know?

Becky Discovers Anal Sex Toys

But when I found toys, I really fell hard. They just may be the real love of my life- sorry Jason, lol. The first time I went to buy toys I was at college and drove myself all the way out like 45 mins from where I stayed because I didn’t want my new college friends to think I was the pervert that I definitely was, you know? So here I was, just over 18 and away from home for the first time, walking into a seedy little sex shop 45 mins away from my dorm because I was desperate to try a vibrator that wasn’t my back massager. I remember feeling very sexy and desired by the sales clerk, an older man whose eyes lit up when I told him what I wanted. I knew he was imagining me sliding it deep into myself as I held it in my hand, testing its weight, its texture, so soft and flesh like. We tested it out before I left the store… and not like that, you guys. This isn’t a penthouse forum article- we just revved up the engine and saw what my new pretty toy could do before I brought her home for her inaugural tour of my dont think I did too great of a job, thinking back on some of the looks I got after that weekend. I barely left my dorm room but to feed myself and shower that whole weekend, just playing with myself feeling grown up as fuck.

My first anal toy didn’t come until much later, once I had moved to Florida. Actually strike that- I think once I discovered Adam and Eve I got my first anal beads as a freebie with a vibrator I bought. And double strike that because I was for sure playing with anal outercourse with my vibrating eggs before then too. Aren’t I a dirty little butt slut? So I guess what I meant to say was the very first toy I got for the purpose of insertion. Do you remember the butterfly clitoral stimulators. You would slide them on, them came with an elastic harness, and you would wear them right over your pussy. Well I got one of those, with a twist. Mine was called the scorpion, and it had the typical clitoral stimulator that fit over my pussy, but also had a cute little cock to ride. But its most charming feature was a bendable stinger tail that fit perfectly in my pert rear end. It was thin and comfortable- honestly my tapered candlesticks were thicker than the tail, but it vibrated and the combination of the sensations was so yummy. 

Types of Anal Sex Toys

But when it comes to anal play and anal masturbation, you do have some options not only in toys but also types of anal sex toys.

Here are some types of anal toys you might consider:

• Butt Plugs
• Prostate Stimulators
• Dildos & Vibrators
• Anal Beads
• Strap Ons
• Butt Plugs

Butt Plugs

Let’s start with butt plugs, since they are often the first stop for anal sex toys, with good reason. Butt plugs are excellent anal training tools, getting that soft flesh in your asshole to yield around it. They come in all sorts of sizes and configurations, they can vibrate and pulse and heat and whirl and twirl- there are just too many options to list. So I am just going to focus on a few of my favorites.

• For men: I would recommend a starter kit with curved plugs. The curve stimulates your prostate, which produces the most titillating sensations imaginable. I did an entire podcast on prostate milking, matter of fact, and a blog with prostate milking testimonials. Here’s a great anal training set for like 25 bucks- can’t beat it with a stick. The site also notes that women can experience gspot stimulation from the curved design as well. 
• For anyone: any of the thin tapered set design tends to be a really gentle choice for the beginner. The booty call pegging set boasts to be the smallest training set available, so if you have any reservations regarding beginning your anal training, this may be the most comfortable options. 
• Now, once you have your cute butt hole trained comfortably, I recommend switching to lovense. Not only can you enjoy long distance play within their community, but their toys are top level in quality and produce the most delicious sensations. The Lovense Hush Series is the strongest vibrating butt plug that I have ever personally experienced. I actually love controlling long distance sex toys… like a lot, so if thats your bag, we should be friends. And trust me when I say- it really should be your bag. And listen, you can also start out with lovense– they have a smaller model that would be comfortable for beginners, but their price point is significantly higher, with good reason, but still. So if you aren’t sure about your future as a butt slut, maybe stick to a beginners kit like the 2 above.

Prostate Stimulators

As I said, Ive spoken a lot about the wonders of prostate milking and how good it feels. There are some excellent options out there, but I will cover just a few of my favorite.

• For a low tech, cost effective option, I recommend the Aneros Helix. Its a trident shaped toy that you place inside of yourself and simply clench and relax until you achieve orgasm. You can get this one on amazon, so if you need added discretion, you can have it sent to an amazon drop box instead of your house. 
• In terms of vibrating prostate massagers, I am going with my favored brand Lovense. The Lovense Edge 2 is phenomenal, and of course, it is set up for long distance play so of course its the best for playing with your favorite mistress, if thats your jam. 
• Now I personally dont have as much experience with them, but in the course of my research I found mention of the Lelo Hugo  and Lelo Loki Wave  as really popular options that were universally loved as well. But what can I say- I am loyal to lovense but its puts me where I want to be, smack dab in the drivers seat, firmly in control of my lover.

Dildos & Vibrators

As far as dildos are concerned there are soooo many options that I don’t even know where to begin, so I am going to break it down a little differently. I also did receive some help from maleq.com in an article entitled “Best Anal Dildos to Buy in 2025 – Top 15 [Tested]” 

• Suction Cup Style: These dildos are great, because you can attach them to any surface and literally fuck them like the little butt slut we all know you are. When I play with my butt sluts, I quite enjoy having them use a suction cup dildo so they can really cock ride for me. It makes them look positively filthy, which I love. The maleq people suggested Boy with Balls Anal Dildo, with is delightfully curved with a suction cup and fat balls. Its a very respectable 6.5″ but still suitable for a beginner. Best part is that its curved for your pleasure and will tickle your prostate.
• King Cock Series- ranging from 7 to 10 inches- these fatty realistic cocks make for a very enjoyable ride, as they are affixed with a nice anal vibrator as well. I personally love vibration and rarely buy just a dildo when I could have a vibrator. I would say these would fall into the intermediate to advanced category, though a beginner may be able to squeeze in that 7″ one. But they are fatties as well, so keep that in mind.
• Satisfyer Heat Climax Black Prostate Vibrator- Now I haven’t had the pleasure of playing with one of these, but I am including it because it has some of my favorite features and excellent reviews. It is a vibrating dildo, ergonomically shaped to fit perfect in your rear, plus it has a heat function which I personally love.

Now those are just a few options I happened across and liked, but I want to introduce you to two companies that you can find one of a kind, high quality toys, if you like to ride dildos. I am going to review both sites and then I challenged myself to find my favorite anal toy from each site, which is going to be hard to narrow down. I may grab a few from each site, you guys. I can’t help it.

Baddragon.com: Not only do they use very high quality safe ingredients for your cute rear ends- I forgot to mention that the anal tissue absorbs everything, so if you are using toxic ingredients, you are harming yourself- but they are super fun and unique and have some great features. They have fantasy oriented scifi type of dildos, so they are super bright and colorful and fun. They also have fun rideables, dildos on a landing pad, that you ride. They have dildos that cum and squirt inside you too, and they sell the cum that you can use. So fucking fun, you guys. So here are a couple of my favorite anal toys from bad dragon:

• The Cockatrice Lil Squirt has it all, to a fun curve for your prostate, to a cum effect which keeps that hole nice and lubed your entire ride, and its small enough to be appropriate for even a beginner.

Mr Hankys: Like Bad Dragon, Hankeys Toys is made of the finest qualities designed to be safe for that vulnerable tissue. Like Bad Dragon, they have a truly impressive array of very inventive toys. I have spent hours just playing around on the site with client because its so fucking fun. These are pricey pieces, people. But even if you dont buy them, check out the site. Its worth a look around. I found a couple of really fun things I would like to share with you right now, matter of fact.

• First up, this little item was found by typing in anal in the search bar- its the only item specific to anal on the site apparently- but it is a bright orange Traffic Cone Anal Trainer. I fucking LOVE it so much and want to make a subby sit on a traffic cone for me, lol. It comes in 7 sizes- from easily manageable to What in the Actual FUCK. By the way, you can typically select from a wide array of colors, sizes, but also firmness level, which is a nice feature.
• One of my long time favorites is Dana’s Grip which is a dildo with a hand wrapped around the cock for the ultimate in sensation. I haven’t tried it but my butthole clenches at the thought of all those ripples and bumps sliding back and forth in my cute little ass and it thrills me. It also kind of reminds me of drag me to hell, and has a horror movie connotation to it that I like.
• For the beginning I liked Davey’s Tendrils in size XS.  The tenacles start out really thin and the corkscrew design helps with insertion
• But I have to say I really couldn’t decide because there are really so many, so honorable mention time: Siswet’s Tentacles for its tenacle suckers feel soooo good on that sensitive tissue, Captain Hook for its upward curve , and corn dildo  because I’m a country girl. I also had a very naughty experience with an ear of corn that brings back fond memories.

Anal Beads

So whats fun about anal beads is they are so fucking sensual, so drenched in sensation, they almost feel luxurious. Its never going to be the main event, not for me anyways, with maybe an exception or two along the way. Here is what I will say about most non vibrating anal beads- they come in a variety of sizes, shapes, textures and materials so explore with them. I am not going to go one by one through them though, other than to say that you should definteily try slowly pulling them out right at the point of orgasm. Fucking delicious! But I want to talk about the anal beads that vibrate! There are two really fun options to play with.

• My number #1 choice is the lovense ridge, the rotating, vibrating anal beads that have long distance remote capability. You had to know that was coming. I am, after all, a lovense girl through and through. The ridge produces delightful sensations, whilring and twirling at the same time it vibrates with a pretty strong motor. The fact that it can be controlled by others remotely just adds to the utility and excitement.
• For a more reasonable price point you can find the Nexus Quattro Vibrating Anal Beads with a remote control- not long distance though, sadly. Still, it can be controlled by either yourself or someone else in your vicinity. 

Strap On Harnesses and Dildos

I have three harnesses that I quite enjoy that do the job for me 90% of the time

• For light sensual play, I found a really cute, sexy pair of vintage inspired panties with a strap on harness- SpareParts Sasha Couture Harness. Its pricey, but is well worth it. I feel so fucking sexy in this get up. Its a sexy scrunched boyshort with ties on the sides and a scallop lace around the edges, fire engine red- and those that know me know how much I love the color red.
• I also have a basic leather low rider harness that fits low slung on my waist, which I find more comfy. I can’t find my exact model so I found a close approximation to it. 
• When I found Mr Hanky’s I of course had to get their Mr Leather S harness
• Best to play with without the need for a harness? Strap-On-Me Remote Control Vibrating Strapless Strap-On is so fucking satisfying. There is a smaller dildo that goes inside me and then a dildo that goes into my parner, and both vibrate delightfully. I really love this one when playing with my girlfriends more sensually than I do with my fuck toys.
• I have a custom one poured for me and my situationship, modeled after him, thats my absolute favorite. I love the idea of fucking someone with the cock that brings me so much pleasure, too. I also like wielding that 10″ bad boy too.
• I also really loved the look of the Uncut Lampwick, and got myself one of them. I honestly got the small/medium and its damn near 12″. I fucking love it.

So these are just some of my favorite options but I would love to hear from you- what are some of your favorite anal toys? Email me at becky@enchantrixempire.com to let me know. Or better yet, book your next long distance domination session with me today!