Reason People Want Privacy Strategies for Playtime
And let’s talk a little about what drives this need for privacy, because I think its important to process any shame regarding this.
Stigma
Listen at this particular juncture in time, the level of stigma is downright dangerous for many to come out of the sissy closet- or to come out of any sexuality or gender related closet. People are being targeted based on their sexuality and gender identity. They are maligned, demeaned, and threatened and our government is largely co-signing this. People are having to make the choice between being authentic with who they are or safeguarding their personal safety by safeguarding their privacy. According the translegislation.com, there are 1,014 anti trans bills currently being considered, with 124 already passed, up from 701 bills in 2024, with 51 passed. There were 88 bills just on the Federal level in 2024. The government has very much signaled that they do not support trans rights at all, allowing some of the most bigoted dangerous conditions to flourish. Matter of fact, the DOJ recently rolled back LGBTQ+ considerations for prisoners, putting gay and trans people at risk for sexual assault. There is no shame in ensuring your own safety.
Relationships
Another very understandable reason is because of the intimate relationships that may not support your sissy side being revealed. I think its all good and fine to generalize that we should always be honest, unless you want to be fucking realistic. There are many people who don’t have the luxury of being honest about their feminization desires or their other fetishes, yet these are needs that have to be met in some shape or form in order to be self actualized. I do think there is a lot of shame that builds up in people when they feel they have to hide things from their spouse or other important people in their life but think that sometimes the deception is needed to preserve the relationship. In many ways, that small deception goes a long way to preserve the relationship as well as the feelings of the other person or people who may be impacted if the secret was to come out. I am somewhat of a realist when it comes to relationships and recognize that we live in a sexually repressed culture that doesn’t honor alternative sexualities. So, people do what they have to in order to preserve a sense of self AND their valued relationships, and I don’t think they should be shamed for that.
Internal Shame
Speaking of shame, that’s another reason people may want to safeguard their privacy. Swimming in the waters of sexual repression and sexual shame tends to get one wet, doesn’t it? A lot of undercover sissies or anyone who claims an alternative sexuality like being submission, having fetishes, or playing around with kink carry internal shame regarding their sexually. Listen, as much as I think this is unnecessary shame to be carrying around, there is a process to letting go of shame that and that’s not a process that should be decided externally, by any other person than you.
Professional Reasons
Along with preserving relationships, a lot of people safeguard their privacy for professional reasons. In a sexually repressed society, one cannot carry any sexual identity that spits in the face of said repression, right? And the consequences for being found out extend past the personal directly into the professional. A ton of my clients would lose their jobs if their extracurricular activities were discovered, as heinous and unfair as it is. People want to safeguard their privacy inn order to preserve their ability to feed and house themselves. It’s a decision they shouldn’t be forced to make, but we don’t live in the world according to Becky- which is a shame, because that would be one kick ass world. But we live in this world, the one where you increasingly can be fired for being transgender, cross dressing, or even having it discovered that you are into BDSM in any capacity.
Personal Preference
And finally, some people safeguard their privacy because they feel it’s no one else’s fucking business what they like in the bedroom, and that is a very valid reason indeed. Wanting sexual privacy doesn’t really need any specific justification- simply not wanting to discuss your business is reason enough. People are allowed to have boundaries and should not have to feel ashamed for not wanting to invite the world into their bedroom.
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So just a quick note about my work I do with my clients. The network I belong to, known as Enchantrix Empire to most, is known for providing top level privacy to all of our callers. There is a layer of anonymity between the caller and their chosen mistress- I don’t have access to client billing details, names, etc. Beyond that, I was trained to have an almost pathological level of confidentiality, just from having been a therapist. I have been in the position of holding secrets for clients for years and years now, and I take that responsibility very seriously. Your secrets will be safe with me, pets. Make sure you come back next week for Part Two of Undercover Sissy: Sissy Privacy Strategies.
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