I’m Ms Becky, current femdom and former therapist and I am very much looking forward to celebrating sluts all month long. As a full fledged, unrepentant unashamed slut myself, I also look forward to being celebrated this month. I am also really excited about this month because I feel passionately about the issue, funny as that may sound. I really dislike toxic shame in all forms, and especially dislike how interwoven into our modern sexuality it is. Celebrations like this not only feel sexy, they feel impactful, and I like that. This month long will be a celebration of sluttiness in all its forms. I want to discuss slut training, slut shaming, switches and polys and just so many different things. I will be playing with this in a playful manner, so I hope no one gets offended by being placed on the slut umbrella. Its a sign of affection and regard, I promise. And to prove it, I will first start with my own slutty confessions.

My Slutty Journey Begins

So darlings, I dont know if I have mentioned this lately but let me reiterate, I am what I call a born pervert, meaning there has never been a time that I haven’t been a sexual anomaly. From the time I became a woman, I have been a hypersexual little deviant, eager to explore all the ways I can make my pussy explode. I mean, just last month I told you all about how I desecrated all the tapered candles in my home before I got up the nerve to go to a sex shop and get myself some big girl sex toys.

I will say I am fortunate enough to have been born a bit shameless, which makes freeing my inner slut with slutty confessions all that easier. Matter of fact, it was barely a journey at all except for the misfortune of growing up in a toxic society that punishes women’s sexuality, of course. More on that later, lol. But I have always instinctually found a lot of pleasure in exploring my body and was blessed with a particularly vivid imagination. Filthy too, if we are being honest. There were entire days that I didn’t leave my bed and my vibrator didn’t leave my pussy, and I remember being fully immersed in myself- my scent, my slick pussy, my tight pebbled nipples, the swell of my tummy. Is it obnoxious to admit I was genuinely a bit obsessed with myself, or do you understand the appeal?

Slutty Confessions: Bring on the Boys

It was as natural as could be to begin exploring the limits, or lack thereof, of my sexual powers over the boys that I knew. I became a proficient cocktease, and then later, an even more proficient slut. My relationship with being a slut was complicated- one moment I would feel very powerful and the next I would be filled with shame because everything in society was telling me how morally wrong it was to act on my sexual urges. But thankfully, Im a bit of a stubborn cunt, and the logic of having this magical body and not taking advantage of all its yummy sensations just seemed goofy as fuck to me. Thats before you even figured in my reaction to the power and control this body and face granted me over the opposite sex. I will say that confusing reaction to my own sluttiness continued through my early college years, until I moved to Miami.. not that I let it stop me. Even when my college friends begin looking their noses down on me because I was hooking up with guys, even when I got called a slut by two of my ex boyfriends and countless others- I kept on being Becky, mostly unashamed and fully unrepentant. I was having threesome with girlfriends and frat guys, I was partying and having myself a good old time.

Slutty Miami, how I love you!

But I really came to embrace the honesty in my sluttiness, just the raw unfiltered vein of sluttiness that seemed to flow just beneath the surface in me, in slutty Miami. I’ve spoken about the impact of this period on me before but this is where I really bloomed sexually. Within weeks of moving from the country, the sticks really, to Miami I was stripping in a club. Stripping reinforced the power I had over men, and widened my eyes to what I could make them do in order to even be graced by my presence. Now I was a good girl when at the club because I didn’t want to mix business and pleasure, but that’s where I made a bunch of my slutty friends who were able introduce me to the club scene. If I thought my first two years at college made me a slut, its nothing compared to the amount of regular dick I was getting in Miami back in the day. I also begin to experiment with feminization, tease and denial, primal sex, and more!

Ms Becky is Born

Its at that time that I begin exploring the BDSM club scene, and through that, really honed my skills at domination. I was a club regular at several fetish clubs and begin performing there live. From there, I went pro dome in a local dungeon and really begin to enjoy slut training with my submissives, leaning into this equally celebratory and sexually demeaning notion of being my slut. So now its not just a matter of accepting my own sluttiness, its deliberately deconstructing a culture of slut shaming by turning it on its head with unrepentant slutty confessions, living boldly and visibly as a very happy slut.

Where to Go From Here

What I hope to do in the rest of this episode, and honestly throughout the entire month, is examine this celebration of sluts while exploring how we can deconstruct slut shaming culture and other form of toxic shame relating to our sexuality. So I anticipate a discussion of what a slut is, what slut shaming is, how it relates to the patriarchy and also a really fun look at slut training and how I work with my submissives to actively encourage their most slutty selves…and hopefully many, many slutty confessions. Having experienced the shame of being labeled a slut from the get-go, I have learned to lustily embrace my own sluttiness in defiance of their judgements about my sexuality. Its one of the reasons I commit myself to a practice of deconstructing toxic shame and the systems and ideas that support it. Its no big surprise how I ended up as a professional pro dome, in a position to not just work to tackle toxic shame but also challenge it in others. But not just tackle the issue of slut shaming- I want to encourage a full fledged embrace of slutty behavior and practices, because I think a sexually satisfied world is going to be a much happier place to live in.

Do You Have a Slutty Confession to Share with Me? 

I love to hear your slutty confessions and promise to celebrate your sexual freedom, and in some cases outright depravity, with you! I love listening to you outline your filthiest sexual experiences shamelessly. Arrange for a session today! Sty tuned all month long to explore all the ways in which we can get slutty with one another.

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