We will be discussing a bit about why slut training is such a powerful tool to freeing your inner slut. I just want you to live your best slutty life, yes?

What is a Slut?

Well, depends on who you ask. To some, it means a woman who has many sexual partners. To others, it means a women who has the morals of a man. Still others wear it as a badge of pride, while some like only to hear it whispered in the dark to them. Here on my page we are going to redefine it to mean something entirely else. A slut is a person who has thrown off the shackles of toxic shame relating to their sexuality and relishes in it instead. That seems to sum it up nicely. I mean after all, a woman doesn’t have to have a lot of sexual partners- hell she doesn’t have to have ANY sexual partners to be called a slut- she just has to be seen enjoying herself in a sexual life, really- smiling too much, touching someone’s arm, wearing a sweater thats just a tad bit tight? Dont worry- Im not bitter, much. But as you’ll notice I did not define a slut as a woman, but instead as a person. Trust me, boys can be sluts too. Better believe it. And let’s talk about what makes a good slut… a good slut.

Traits of a Good Slut

Generous

A good slut is generous of body and mind, sharing of themselves and their body as a source of pleasure for others and as a source of pleasure for themselves. Stinginess does not a good slut make, friends. There is almost an innocence in wanting to share in sexual pleasure with another, a sincerity of heart and mind that shines through.

Honest

A good slut is honest about their desires and their sexuality. They don’t hide behind social propriety like a shy wallflower. They reveal themselves and their true intentions easily, and own their desires.

Confident

A good slut is confident in their sexuality, in their ability to sate their own sexual desires and to use their body to sate their partner’s… or partners’. They don’t bow and bend under the oppressive weight of society’s opinion of them.

Compassionate

A good slut is compassionate and empathetic, connecting with other people in order to satisfy their need for intimacy and love. They understand the power of a soothing touch.

Creative

A good slut studies pleasure and envisions new and creative ways to deliver it. They envision new sensations and experiences for themselves and their partner.

Grateful

A good slut recognizes the value of sensual pleasure and revels in it. That requires a sense of gratitude for the current moment.

Resilience

A good slut will possess resilience, as this is sometimes a bit of a cruel world towards sluts, yes? Resilience allows sluts the mental fortitude and well being necessary to thrive in a slutty lifestyle.

Open Minded

A good slut will be open minded and willing to try new experiences. They also accept others and aren’t judgmental.

Excellent Communicator

A good slut has excellent communication and oral skills, and are able to communicate their preferences and desires to their partners as well as coax their partner’s out.

Willingness to Please

A good slut wants to be sexually pleasing to their partner(s), putting their all in evoking the most erotic and sensual sensations from their lover. After all, their reputation depends on it, yes?

Diligence

A good slut wont stop until the job is done, working to ensure that all involved reach their maximum in pleasure. They are willing to put in the hard work of slutting to achieve an explosive finish for themselves and their partners.

Resourcefulness

A good slut won’t let anything get in the way of a good time, and will outwit any barriers to pleasure. Sluts can be very strategic, yes?

Commitment

A good slut is committed to their end goals of a good fuck, or whatever sexual acts they may be engaging in. They don’t stop until they achieve their goal.

Affectionate

A good slut is affectionate and caring. Sluts know that we all need warmth, affection, and connection- they excel at ensuring all 3.

Thoughtfulness

A good slut is a thoughtful sexual partner to their chosen partner. They anticipate needs and desires and seek to meet them.

Now I broke it down this way because I wanted you all to know that being a good slut is about more than just spreading your legs and mashing junk with someone. There are qualities that can be developed to make you excel and thrive as a slut. A lot of these qualities may not be instinctive and these slutty traits may be developed with slut training. But its not just traits that can be developed- its also skills.

The Skills a Good Slut Needs in Training

Sensual Touch

Sensual touch is a critical skill for any self respecting slut. You need to be able to wrap your lovers around your fingers, yes? Sensuality require mindfulness, a set of skills designed to teach you to live life through the senses.

Cock Riding/Fucking

I mean, how more obvious of a skill does a good slut need other to be good at fucking? Its basically the MAIN skill of a successful slut, you know? But as we all know, practice makes perfect and this is a skill set that must be practiced if you want to excel at it.

Sucking Dick/Licking Pussy

Of course, head is a mandatory skill, whether you are sucking dick or eating pussy. Oral sex is very popular for a good reason, and mastering these skills grants one a immense amount of sexual power.

Sparkling Conversation/Wit

The ability to carry on a conversation is a huge turn on for many, so if you want to have your lovers eating out of your hand, its a skill set to master. There is no stronger sex organ than the brain. I will die on that hill.

Skills of Seduction

You must be able to entice your partner(s) with your mind, body and soul. Skills of seduction involve weaving a web for your prey, using all your talents and abilities to accomplish your sexual goals.

Understanding of Human Psychology & the Self

Sluts must have a healthy sense of self, as well as be able to engage with others in intimate and healthy ways. That requires some insight into the self and others, as well as practical skills such as self reflection.

Excellent Decision Making Skills

Because there are heightened risks to a sexually active lifestyle, a good slut must be able to make good decisions and have honed instincts to avoid danger.

Presentation Skills (Make Up, Hair, Clothes, Etc)

Finally, a good slut must be able to use their assets to attract their chosen prey. That requires skills in make up, clothes, hair, fashion, etc.

How Can Slut Training Help? 

Now, this seems like a tall order, yes? A lot to be covered? This is why a good slut will benefit from slut training, to help develop and reinforce the traits and skills necessary to excel in your sluttiness. Being a good slut isn’t about just opening up your legs for someone- its so much more expansive and all encompassing then that. Slut training allows for a concentrated, intentional development of the skills that will keep you sexually satisfied, your partners fulfilled, and will truly help deconstruct the toxic shame that hurts our slutty community. Imagine having that devilish voice in your ear, whispering for you to do the naughty thing that you so desperately want to do? That level of reinforcement is priceless to freeing your inner slut. Being praised for being your filthy, authentic self allows people to feel seen and accepted.

Improve your Cock Riding and Dick Sucking Skills

Slut training can enhance your cock riding and dick sucking skills, of course. I frequently have my submissives suck and fuck dildos as a means for refining this skill set. Having a trainer there, focusing on how well you take cock in your ass or pussy, or how sexy you look as you perform, can greatly improve these skills. No one wants a slut who is a bad fuck, you know? And having an experienced trainer to lead you through the ropes can assure that will never be you, ok?

Feel Seen & Accepted with Slutty Confessions

Let’s get real for second too, while we are at it. My core philosophy of the meaning of life can be summed up as the need to be seen and to see, understood and to understand, to be loved and to love. None of these things can be done in a vacuum- we need each other to feel fulfilled, for the most part. Many sluts feel the need to hide themselves because of society’s vile judgments, which makes for a lonely and anxious existence, always worried someone will see the real you and reject you for it. That leads to the need to build protective barriers and to hide behind them, which can be very painful and damaging to my poor little sluts. Just providing a space for my sluts to be seen as they as is wildly impactful to breaking down those barriers, allowing them to bask in the warmth of my regard. Slutty confessions allow you your place to shine!

Imagine having these wildly erotic, mind blowing sexual experiences and not being able to tell anyone? Slut training allows you to celebrate your sexual conquests by sharing them, in explicit detail preferably, with your trainer. A good slut trainer will celebrate your libertine ways, your utter debauchery with unfettered appreciation and positive reinforcement. You’ll be able to entertain your trainer with tales of sexual depravity in filthy detail. As someone who is mired in sexual depravity myself I know the pain of having to hold in all these yummy details. I try to tell my vanilla friends and they beg me to stop, lol. Slut training allows for both trainer and trainee to share the Xrated details of their sex life with shameless glee.

Hone Your Skills of Seduction

The skills of seduction need to be honed and refined with slut training. Now, please know, no matter your current skill level there is always room for improvement. Seduction involves skills like sparkling wit, presentation skills to attract, and an understanding of human psychology, but there is something deeper, just beneath the surface that seduction infers. Seduction can happen with a well placed sigh, a smoldering look, a challenging glint in your eyes. These skills can be developed by having a partner allows for crucial feedback to really hone these predatory skills. Seduction is an art form, and what is art without an audience?

Increase Your Decision Making Skills & Decrease Unnecessary Risks

Now a good slut needs good decision making skills, and not for nothing, we are known for our risk taking behaviors and these streets are brutal. There are real risks involved in sex, which is why unprotected sex is a no-no for any good slut. A good slut keeps herself and her partners safe. But thats not all- there is real stranger danger involved with casual hook ups. Developing sound judgment and intuition is critical to any good slut training program. Part of my role as a slut trainer is to constrain unhealthy or needlessly risky behaviors while encouraging slutty behavior.

Improve Your Well Being

Likewise, they must practice good mental hygiene to maintain a healthy sense of self as well as ensure the wellness of their partner. I do believe there is something to the idea that we absorb the energy of our lovers and we for sure emotionally and mentally impact one another. Being a good slut means attending to feelings of shame, loneliness, or sadness honestly and neither oppressing them or ignoring them.

Improve Your Ability to Attract Your Prey

Good sluts can carry a conversation with sparkling wit and charm, easily dominating the attention of their chosen prey. Eroticism begins in the mind and our brain is our largest sexual organ. Being able to converse erotically with another person is an essential skill for a good slut. A good slut trainer will provide crucial feedback and correction as needed so you may shine your brightest.

Get Your Slut Training with Ms Becky 

Now I of course offer slut training services and will soon be offering slut training packages, so if you want some help freeing your inner slut, well, I would be happy to help you out. Check out my About Page to see my many qualifications as a slut. I work my sluts hard though, so be prepared to really commit yourself to your training. Immediate corrective feedback is one of the best behavioral modifications that exist, and slut trainers surely offer that in spades. Having someone to discuss your sexual experiences can be exciting, but also practically help you to become the best slut you can be. I don’t take it easy on my sluts, but they also don’t want me to. They love when I use them thoroughly and frequently. But do know that I do customize my slut training programs to meet the needs of each unique little slut. You know you’ll be in the best slutty hands with a filthy little slut like me. I also offer long distance sex toy sessions for the slut who cant get enough, prostate milking for the discerning male slut, cock control and cocksucking reviews. Additionally I offer Erotic Healing Reports, which is a very comprehensive assessment and support tool for the aspiring slut.