I thought it would be fun to collect some testimonials regarding cock control to explore what it is about it that people LOVE so much. Below you will find a collection of testimonials from the people who love it, including professional Dommes who are experienced in Long Distance Domination. You will find product recommendations as well, and I highly encourage you to check them out if you love smoking hot cock control audios and assignments. Enjoy!
Femdoms Break Down Why They Love Cock Control
I love the concept of sacrifice and love it when my subbies grant me power over their most beloved possession. The level of control granted over someone’s body when they cede any semblance of control or autonomy is wildly erotic to me. I love hearing those sweet whimpers and sighs as you stroke to my commands, making beautiful music for me. The sensory experience of cock control is so vastly underrated- the sounds of skin slapping skin, the sight of that aching meat and the need on my willing victim’s face, its all so enticing. The notion that it is I who decides whether or not you will experience the sweet relief of a release or whether you will suffer unfulfillment is extraordinarily heady for me.
Mmmmmmmm when I think of being in total control of a man’s cock; it makes me feel ultra sexy and powerful! My naturally dominant feminine energy literally soars when I hear a man offer me his cock and, ultimately, infinite control of his masculinity. The energy exchange in these situations is as physically arousing for me as it is mentally exhilarating!
Mysterious Mistress Harper had this to say about cock control:
I love cock control because I get off on the trust the stroker has in me. I love feeling powerful, and seeing the very obvious proof that what I’m doing and saying is effecting my partner gives me great pleasure and joy. When someone trusts me enough to let me guide and control their cock, their stroking, and even their orgasm? That’s the good stuff right there.
Mistress of Fantasy Fiona describer her love of cock control like this:
I have experienced both submission and domination and there is such a beautiful balance to both. I have learned that I’m a Femdom at heart though, and have relished every aspect of both giving and receiving from the cyclical power exchange. Cock control in particular is the most gratifying and I think that’s just because it feels the most natural. Nothing alleviates enveration and listlessness as much as engaging in cock control. It’s like feeding off the erotic energy of others is the most fulfilling and revitalizing experience for me when I need inspiration.
Our Sensual Domme Goddess Rachel said this:
Controlling a man’s cock makes Me feel powerful and aroused! I like to call a cock a joystick sometimes, since once a woman has it in her proverbial hand, she basically controls the whole man! Not just his orgasms, either! Because when he strokes and cums only how, when, or if I say, there’s no telling what else I can get him to do for Me! *wink*
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This Mistress LOVES cock control! I love the aspect of ultimately giving the subbies and sissies what they want, all while getting to be a little playful and adventurous on my end, really testing the limits of their capabilities. I also love that once you’ve had a few sessions with our clients, we are able to establish a good form of communication and trust that allows us to get past any fears or qualms a new to submission subbie may have. Lastly, I love seeing anyone who can loosen up and get uninhibited in a way they haven’t experienced before!
Cock control is a powerful tool in any Masturbatrix’s bag tricks. I’d argue that it’s the cornerstone of any cock-teasing, sensual Domme’s sessions but I don’t need argue when I’m in control. For a Goddess such as myself, cock control is ALL about the power I’m given and I can’t rave enough about how much I delight in teasing and edging cock’s until my sub is an incoherent mass of goo.

What I love about cock control? Well let me tap into my sensual nature and speak from the heart! When a man surrenders control, it’s a dance of intimacy. His submission whispers sweet nothings of trust, making it an aphrodisiac for me! It’s not just a fleeting thrill, but a treasure trove of emotions, a delicate gift wrapped in vulnerability. To be the one he opens up to in this way is more than just sexy; it’s an honor that sends my heart fluttering. The power play becomes our shared secret, a symphony of desire that crescendos into pure, unbridled passion.
Mistress Demi is quite sure of her feelings on cock control:
I love cock control because I receive the most delicious high of dominance and power when I cradle a man’s most prized possessions in the palms of my hands. Turning them into putty that I will use to mold into my perfect puppet.Having the ability to seduce a man into submission, bending them to my will, all while teasingly twisting them into my web of desire is truly a form of art.Plus, I really love hearing them beg.
What I love about cock control is:
1. I enjoy helping people discover things about themselves through kink and submission.2. I have learned more about my own kinks and fetishes through getting to know submissives. You’d be surprised how much you can learn from a submissive.3. I get to explore some of my own fantasies with those who have like minded interests and are compatible.
Why Do Submissives Love Cock Control?
I love strong, powerful women pushing me around verbally and controlling, teasing, toying, taunting, tormenting, disciplining, humiliating and laughing at me for THEIR FUN. It has allowed me to exercise my exhibitionist nature and fulfill that desire please women and be a play toy FOR THEM! All my experiences with cock control have been here at LDW where it is wonderfully one-sided, live on cam, female superiority CFNM.
I love cock control because of the relationship it creates between my Mistress and myself! Beyond the intensity of my physical feelings, the emotional and spiritual bond that I feel when giving up control to my Mistress is so powerful!! Cock control has made a huge impact on my life and has made it so much better! I feel so energized, and I feel inspired to make myself better in every way so that I honor and serve my Mistress! My overall experience with cock control is very positive! There are some frustrating moments from time to time but with self-reflection and the guidance of my Mistress, these moments help me to better understand and strengthen my devotion which makes me feel so so good!!
I honestly LOVE it. I am horny ALL THE TIME. But, I also feel like I am dedicated to a purpose….. submitting to the will of a Domme! As a naturally submissive male who adores being dominated by a powerful woman this is really a dream come true. What says absolute control more than Orgasm Denial? Plus….. prior to 25 days ago, my masturbation schedule was OFF THE METER!!!!. Like 3x daily!!!! And I was becoming desensitized to porn and needed more and more extreme videos to get off to….. And miraculously, my porn addiction has pretty much halted altogether. So, that’s probably good for my neighbors who I’m stealing interwebs from?
Cock control is where it is at. The submissive behavior when in subspace increases. The longer there is cock control the longer obedience to the Mistress. The intense feelings over a longer period resonate in the submissive mind. Prolonging the release makes the journey so much better. Servitude, obedience, and pleasing the Mistress will remain high.
For the last 6 1/2 years I have been married to a woman who controls my cock. It has been, and continues to be, the best time of my life! First and foremost, I love cock control because of the pleasure it gives my wife! Whether she’s denying me or granting me release, the power it gives her arouses her like nothing else. Bringing her pleasure, gives me pleasure, so if she is aroused by denying me, then I am aroused by being denied! What cock control has done for me is changed my mindset towards orgasm. Most men believe that orgasm is achieved only through ejaculation. I have realized that isn’t true, because orgasm begins in the brain. I have learned that my favorite time during sex is the way I feel just before ejaculation. This means I experience the euphoria of orgasm before I cum. How has cock control changed my life? It has stopped me from masturbating. Not because I can’t, but because I don’t want to. I promised my wife, and myself, that I would never pleasure myself without her permission, and I have never broken that vow. This fact has allowed me to be more successful in life because I am able to focus on more important things. I know that some say that if I am not locked, then I am not experiencing true cock control, but I disagree. If I were to break my vow and jerk off without permission, our relationship would be destroyed. Our marriage and our lifestyle is based on mutual trust. If I can’t trust myself, how can I expect her to trust me?
What has yielding control over my cock (sexuality) has meant to me? Well, first and foremost, I’ve learned to be less selfish. i thought that I was being unselfish in my sexual relationship with my wife, but I came to realize I was not just fucking instead of making love, i was using another person’s body to get off, leaving a smelly gooey mess inside her – a price that she didn’t really need to pay. Especially, when i came to realize how much she enjoyed just being caressed and cuddled after her orgasm. In the process, I’ve come to experience less pussy, making the experience extremely special if and when i am granted access. In short, i have achieved greater intimacy while enhancing, uplifting and empowering my wife, as well as other Women.
Having my cock controlled has meant learning to become vulnerable with a more adjusted ego – more humble. It’s also allowed me to be accepted by Women who, in turn, share more of their souls with me. Again, increased spiritual and emotional intimacy. In fact, i’d say the best sex of my life came (no pun intended) as i ejaculated loads of semen into panties while I was encouraged and watched by a dominant Woman. It might sound avant-guard, but it is really rather old fashioned. For me, cock control is a bit like beauty and the beast in which physical power and ego were surrendered, then dominated, and even motivated to greatness by a wise, confident, kind, but powerful Woman.
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Honestly, cock control is so much fun, and everyone should give it a try to find out if they like it too. Sometimes it’s fun to not be in charge, fellas. 😉
Very true- there’s a companion piece with some interesting statistics that prove that both men and women love it.
Wow such beautiful responses from both sides! I really really love this and identify with everything that has been said here.
I love the feeling of total submission. I’ve never experienced that before. It’s intoxicating, charged with eroticism, creates that amazing bond between D and S. It teaches devotion, deepens trust and mutual respect, while deepening the relationship with myself, at least from a submissive’s perspective, because I allow myself to do something I’ve been craving.
Thank you, I really enjoyed this blog. I appreciate you all so much!
Thank you so much! It was really fun to put together and to hear what everyone had to say about it!
This is a wonderful collection of people’s perspectives on cock control! Thank you for taking the time to do this! The thoughts have given me things to ponder about myself which will, ultimately, improve my relationship with my wife.
Well thank you so much for saying that. I am so glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you for posting this and I love all the excellent responses from the Dominant women of Cock Control. I’m looking forward to making 2025 a wonderful year for Femdom. 💖
I love that!!!! And I second the motion on this being a great fucking year!!!!
OMG I love this so hard! You lovely ladies are the reason I smile daily, and so many reasons to love Femdom and letting a woman take the lead! *humps all your legs* xoxoxoxoxo 💋
Me too. Let this by the Year of Femdom & Cock Control! Thank you for bringing some sunshine round my way, Mistress Brighton
Ms Becky,
This is so amazing, so many powerful ladies. I just wish i had a cock you all to control, but at least you all put me in frillies.
And Goddess Brighton, thats so hot and naughty, giggles
twirll and curtsey to you all
Awww, thanks Sissy Belinda!