I wanted to share a bit with you this month, in this All About Me March, about one of my favorite forms of play- long distance sex toy play! We are blessed to be living in the very best times for high-quality, high-tech long distance sex toys that our species has ever seen, and I, for one, aim to take advantage of that. I can sit and control the sex toys buried in my little subby sluts from the comfort of my own home, no matter the distance. Every single vibration they experience a result of MY will, MY desire to see them squirm. Their pleasure only occurring if and when I permit it. The heady sense of power and control I feel as I elicit the sweetest little cries from my sluts is second to none.

Lovense: Leading Brand for Long Distance Sex Toys

Of course, we all should know by now the specific advantages of Lovense, but in case we have a few stragglers, let me fill you in. Lovense is one of the premier leading companies in the long distance toy game- or teledildonics, which is now officially my new favorite word. Isn’t it fucking lovely? So, the advantages of long distance toy play is that your toy can be controlled by a partner virtually, from anywhere in the world, with a simple link. The advantages of Lovense are many, not in the least the fact that it is a trusted brand and never disappoints. The strength and power of the sensations packed in any of their toys is always impressive, whereas I have been once bitten twice shy with some of the other brands in the past. For that reason, to limit the amount of research I need to make for any specific purpose, I just know I can trust Lovense. They are also one of the most well-known brands and have a pretty thriving community of playmates, which is another plus.

Long Distance Sex Toys for Submissives

I recently did a KINKology episode on Mutual Masturbation that extolled the virtues of such play, but let me assure you, the benefits are many. Oh, let me count the ways. So first and foremost, you are being controlled by your Mistress- she is the one creating these delicious sensations in your most intimate of nether regions. The anticipation of not knowing where or when or how, the added mind fuckery of having to follow my instructions in the throes of your ecstasy- these things combine to create a uniquely powerful experience. The fact that it is your Mistress who is giving you the pleasure is very powerful for a submissive, leading to increased feelings of connection and intimacy, and maybe even…dare I say it- love.

Long Distance Sex Toy Play Femdom Scenarios To Try Out

The Obedience Game: The dominant partner gives explicit instructions on how the submissive should touch themselves. This could involve specific techniques, speeds, or even the use of toys. The submissive’s goal is to follow instructions precisely and elicit a reaction of approval from the dominant. “Faster, pet. Faster.” Becoming a stroke pet for your dominant is a very treasured position for many.

Tease and Denial: The dominant teases the submissive, bringing them to the edge of orgasm and then pulling back. This can be repeated multiple times, building anticipation and frustration. The submissive must remain obedient and endure the teasing until the dominant grants permission to orgasm. “Beg for it, darling. Beg.” Begging adds to the sensual experience for me, adding to the symphony of sensory delights. This acts as powerful orgasm training and orgasm control for the stroke pet.

The Blindfolded Stimulation: The submissive is blindfolded, heightening their other senses. The dominant guides their hands, whispering instructions and offering encouragement. The lack of sight increases the submissive’s reliance on the dominant and intensifies the sensory experience to untold heights. Their sense of touch, smell, sound, and taste will all also intensify to compensate for the loss of vision.

Role Playing Scenarios: Consider utilizing a role-playing scenario to guide the play, such as slave auction or Victorian doctor. In case you didnt know, Victorian doctors used to treat hysteria with masturbation and orgasms, which can be a very sexy basis for some femdom reversal play- treating the poor anxious, hysterical subby boy by instructing him how to self-medicate.

The Exhibitionist Delight: Perform in front of a mirror for your Mistress. This adds an element of exhibitionism and voyeurism to the experience, amplifying arousal and excitement. The thrill of being watched and admired can be incredibly arousing. The presence of an audience, whether real or imagined, can significantly enhance arousal. The fear of being caught can add an element of danger and excitement to the experience. Performing in front of an audience can liberate you from long withstanding insecurities and fears, allowing you to transform them into excitement. Allowing yourself to be seen and experienced in your sexuality can be a profoundly satisfying experience, almost verging on a spiritual experience for me. Can you tell that I just can’t wait to put you on display for me?

Long Distance Sex Toy Play Reviews

I thought it may be fun to allow you to hear from my little fuck toys yourself on how they enjoy being used up by me in our long distance sex toy play sessions:

“Being controlled by Ms Becky is so fucking hot. I beg her to let me cum, and she denies me everytime. Mistress likes my balls full and doesn’t like it when I have been satisfied” 

“I bought a Lovense Hush on Ms Becky’s recommendation. The toy itself is so strong that I am barely able to withstand it on full power, which is unfortunate, as Ms Becky quite enjoys making me take it at full power. My orgasms are so powerful after a tease and delay session with her” 

“My mistress likes me to dress up in my panties before a session. She calls me her little sissy slut and she likes to fill up my sissy hole with the Hush until I fill up my panties with cream for her. I highly recommend trying out a sissy slut training session with my Mistress, ms Becky” 

“The Domi is the best wand style vibrator I’ve tried, and I’ve had more than a few. Highly recommend it, everyone needs one, and I mean everyone. And a lot of people will wish they had more than one after trying it, so one is charging on standby while the other is in use. Its the best long distance sex toy on the market. I love my sessions with Ms Becky, Miss Demi & the Domi” 

“Ms Becky makes me beg to ride the gravity for her- she tells me that she likes to fuck my tight little hole, but its not so tight when she is done with it. I highly recommend that you invest in a lovense toy and have a session with Mistress Becky.”

To Book Your Long Distance Sex Toys Session 

You can reach out to me at Becky@enchantrixempire.com to schedule your long distance sex toys play session with me or, better yet, consider a two Mistress play session my partner in crime & sexy bestie Goddess Demi. We often share stroke pets and subby sluts between us, to keep things fresh and fun. Make sure you check out what the Mistresses of Enchantrix Empire are saying about long distance sex toys!

Related KINKology Episode: Mutual Masturbation 

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Be sure to check out my bestie Goddess Demi’s blog “Long Distance Sex Toys Give Me A Thrill of Control” as well.