Ms Becky’s Favorite Sex Positions

Please note, this was originally an Ask Ms Becky response to a question submitted by our very own Nacho Joe, from Enchantrixempire.com! He asked “I was wondering what, if any, differences there is for a Mistress if a subby is worshipping her body, compared to if a Bull worships her?”. I thought this was a fantastic question and one that highlighted the dualistic nature of my sexuality, in just about every way one can be dualistic, being a bisexual (dominant leaning) switch. Additionally, check out the entire “Favorite Sex Positions” episode of KINKology: the psychology of kink to hear all about how the Mistresses of Enchantrix Empire’s favorite sex positions!

Being Worshipped by a Subby

When I am being worshipped by a subby: My mood is sensual, loving, nurturing… or you know, sassy, strict and sadistic, depending upon my particular mood that day. Either way, my attention is turned towards how well I am serviced, allowing myself to be truly decadent with sensation and with allowing myself to be fully worshipped while knowing I deserve that. I am not sure if you all are aware, but dominants have moments of insecurity, moments where we feel out of control too. I calibrate myself to allow my confidence to shine, dispelling useless insecurities, and allow myself to really appreciate myself through the eyes of my subby. And it is a wildly sensual, sexy, gratifying experience. But I don’t lose presence of mind, even when being delightfully serviced, because I step into that flow state. I am connected to all things, each movement measured and impactful, each response analyzed, assessed and categorized. One of the things that I think misunderstand about my sexuality is the concept of my sadism as a selfish act, instead of being something unique I can offer to fulfill someone’s need. I truly think dominance and sadism are acts of service at their core- uniquely qualified individuals giving you exactly what you need, you know? Which is why I was shocked to discover how many people were so scared of me because of my pronounced sadism. My loves, I am but a giver at heart. I give my pain sluts what they need and they love me for it. I expand, becoming everything everywhere.

Being Worshipped by a Bull

Now does this differ from when I am being serviced by my thick cocked situationship, or any of my other sexy alpha type friends? Absolutely it does. I allow myself to melt away, drowned in sensations, when I am fucking an equal, or even allowing myself to be topped by one of them alpha boys. I know this is so counterintuitive, but when I am with my alpha I am in my feminine and receiving, and when I am in my dominance I am in my masculine and giving. And when I talk about being “in my masculine” or “in my feminine” I am really referring to energies. Please dont confuse this to be that I dont think dominance is of the feminine- actually, I think we see powerful examples of female dominance across species and globally within the species. This is just to say my own personal energy turns my eye towards receiving when in the presence of a strong male, and to giving, claiming, taking when in the presence of a beta cuck male or sissy girl. I also relax into a state of mindlessness versus hyper focusing, because I have very different responsibilities to attend to as the dominant in the scene than I do as a fucking equal or as a submissive. I like primal fucking, really aggressive, wresting power back and forth from one another.

Ms Becky’s Favorite Sex Position

Sex Positions for Oral Worship

For getting eaten out, I really love to back into that pretty mouth from the back and just settling down with a comfy pillow while you munch on my very tasty treat. I control the firmness, I can grind against you, and reach my clitty perfectly. Plus I am set up to receive lots of fingering and poking about with your fingers, which I love.

Sex Positions for Pegging and Strap On Play 

For pegging and sodomizing sweet subby holes, I like to hit it from behind. I can get really long, firm strokes, grind against you to stimulate my clitty, and I cum so fucking hard from that position. Plus I really like the perspective play, covering your body with mine completely, standing tall over your hunched up little form. Its adorable, quite frankly. And makes me feel like an Amazon woman, powerful and fierce. Plus there is something about the view of watching a tight little hole being made to accommodate a big thick cock like mine.

Sex Positions for Being Well & Truly Fucked

And finally, when I am being railed myself, I really like to either be on top cowgirl style- so I can grind exactly where I need to grind- or some variation of missionary because the situationship loves to stare at my titties jiggling and I love to be desired (it really gets me off- what can I say- I am an attention whore). So I like to be able to perform, preen, and get all that yummy attention. Plus, as stated, I like to fight. Sometimes, right when he is focusing on watching my pretty titties, I can rear up and quick climb on top to dominate until he very quickly puts me on my ass again. Well, sometimes… I did used to ride and have some very strong inner thigh muscles, so I can hold my own, for a bit. Its like riding a mechanical bull, is all.

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