What’s Happening with Masturbation May! 

Welcome to the most holy of months, my pet. Given that we are entering into Masturbation May, let’s look at masturbation. I did some research into the benefits of masturbation, and here is what I found from an article entitled “Hell Yes, the 7 Best Reasons for Masturbating” by Psychology Today.

• Pleasure and convenience was the first benefit listed, which I heartily approve of. We get so caught up in trying to justify our pleasure that we forget that we can do things just because they feel good. The article mentioned Diogenes the Cynic’s response to being called out for masturbating in the town square, which was “If only it were so easy to soothe hunger by rubbing an empty belly.” The benefits of pleasure are pleasure, and we do not need to justify that any further.
• It is the safer avenue for pleasure than intercourse, with no chance of sexually transmitted diseases or unwanted pregnancies.
• Research shows a positive correlation between how much individuals masturbate and how much sex they have. Mutual Masturbation- which we have discussed at length here at KINKology- is also known to have a great impact on relationships. Want a great sex life? Get stroking, pet.
• Better health. So its not as if it isn’t important to mention the health benefits at all- we just don’t need to justify our pleasure with a disclaimer saying that its ok because its also healthy. BUT… it is also healthy. For men, masturbation flushes out spermies with low mobility, reduces the risk of prostate cancer. I actually read somewhere that if you jerk off 21 times a month, it reduces your risk by 20% but I cannot find the exact source. That said, I believe it is accurate. In women, it aids reproductive health, protects against cervical infections, and strengthens the pelvic floor for both sexes. It floods the system with feel good chemicals like dopamine, endorphins, oxytocin, and prolactin, which can all aid both mood and sleep. It is a light form of cardiovascular exercise; it can lower your heart rate and stave off hypertension. There is an inverse correlation between frequency of masturbation and coronary heart disease
• Psychological benefits like reducing stress, increasing our feel-good chemicals, reducing pain. Our sexuality is also a container in which to explore our identity and to explore life itself. Masturbation kicks start the process of self regulation, impulse control, and self control on sexual situations, all of which improve personal satisfaction and relationships. It can improve self-esteem, offer an escape from everyday stress, and provides a container for you to explore your sexuality, my loves.

What’s Happening with Ms Becky? 

Multi-Mistress Masturbation May 

Welcome to Multi-mistress Masturbation May! All month long, any Multi-mistress call will include one entry into a drawing at the end of the month for free phone sex. Plus, you’ll get the pleasure of being dominated by two hot and horny mistresses. We would love to help you win free phone sex and can think of a few fun ways to spend some sexy time with you.

Sensual Jerk Off Instructions Erotic Audio

We are also offering two new erotic audios this month- Sensual Jerk Off Instructions with a Countdown and Sensual Jerk Off Instructions with Orgasm Denial. You’ll love the way we guide and direct your cock as though it was our own personal play toy. These audios also include some sexy XXX photos of me and Demi to help you along… or make the experience more excruciating, as the case may be. You won’t regret placing yourself fully in our hands either way!

What’s Happening with KINKology

And KINKology is back from hiatus! I missed you all so much during my month away but am super excited to come back to you and this time I am bringing my bestie with me again! Join us for our Joy of JOI episode of KINKology: the psychology of kink.

What’s Happening Around the Empire 

Multi-Mistress Phone Sex Giveaway! 

May’s Mistress of the Month

Double Perk Points Day is…