I was talking with one of my sissy girls recently about why women seem to crave feminization. It seems to me that the drive to feminize men is hardwired into the female human from birth throughout our entire lifespans. I was curious as to why that may be and wanted to explore it further. What follows is my attempt to describe the appeal of feminization from the feminine perspective.
Women love feminization because…
Feminization is naughty & forbidden
I am fully convinced that part of the appeal of feminizing men comes from the fact that it is considered so naughty and forbidden. Put something in front of me and say, “don’t touch” and guess what? IMMA TOUCH IT. And I am not alone. The appeal of the forbidden is damned near legendary. Putting a man into my silky panties and swiping some pretty gloss on his lips is such an attractive proposition simply because society shames it so much. Normalcy is my nemesis and societal control…? Fucking hate her.
Because we love to see big burly men dressed up in pretty makeup and clothes
Honestly part of the appeal is simply that it looks so hysterical to see a big burly man in sweet little panties and lingerie and make up. It almost creates a state of cognitive diffusion, which can add to the excitement of it all.
Because we love to humiliate you
Boy do we ever, lol! Erotic humiliation makes me feel powerful and formidable, and what’s not to love about that. The emasculation part of feminization holds a huge pull for me, and from talking to other mistresses, I am very much not alone in that. Demeaning and removing your ability to identity as a man is a powerful tool for any humiliation & feminization inclined men, and sometimes just about the worst thing a man can think of is to be made into a woman. I blame the patriarchy, which is why I love spitting in the face of it all with sissification.
Because we want you to prove how much power we have over you
THIS. This is the one that drives me mad, personally. I have put so many boyfriends and submissives in panties just to prove that I could. Coercion makes my pussy wet, what can I say? I really enjoy acts of service and what greater act of service can there be besides surrendering your manhood to me. Its the same reason I love chastity so much- because of how much you sacrifice in your service to me, to make me happy.
Because we want to see you release your inner feminine
I am a very sincere believer that we all have masculine and feminine energy that needs to be expressed, and believe like Carl Jung, that society makes us give up the parts of ourself deemed unacceptable, such as displaying traits associated with the opposite sex. I love feminization because I think its powerful to witness men expressing their inner feminine, and the therapist in me knows that it is a healthy adaptive reaction to a society with a punishing and rigid conceptualization of what it means to be a man.
Because we want to share the experience of femininity with you, both as a gift and as revenge.
We just want to share with you the awesome and equally horrifying feminine experience, my loves. We want you to experience the joy of having a girl tribe, of reveling in true intimacy, and of being in relationship with others in the way that only the feminine really can. We also want the pain of the feminine experience to be fully witnessed and understood by you. I am an avid slut shamer of sissy girls, lol. I think that type of play is actually a bit subversive, insofar as it helps deconstruct those toxic standards playfully.
Because we think its fucking hot.
There is nothing hotter than a man who can hold both his masculine and his feminine at the same time. There is a hot little Aussie I know that manages this dynamic quite well- big burly man with a nice thick cock, all dressed up in silky lingerie and riding cock for me? I fucking crave it. People who are being authentically themselves are fucking hot, what can I say?
The power and control you have over me!!! Especially on very first call when you saw me dressed as a girl you had instant crush on me!!!! I can’t say no or resist you! I do want you to make/keep me as your sissy girl with lipstick kisses on my cheeks all the time!!!
I plan on calling again!!! Summer is super busy-once things slow down in September I want to start calling you/Ms Alyssa and be your sissy girlfriend.
I cant wait to make you my sissy girl friend again! I had so much fun with you
Great post! I enjoyed your thoughts on feminization… Many of them are what I suspected… The power of humiliation… A certain degree of revenge… As well as the taboo nature of it….
I suppose my case, however, it’s difficult for you and other women to see me as a man anyway… So being a sissy makes sense
Absolutely. There is no other life for you but as a sissy simp, Dickless
Oh, I love this thoughtful post Ms. Becky – and the pleasure and excitement of being feminized by you and other beautiful women. You’ve got my clitty tingling!
Why, I love hearing that, Sissy Donna!
I m guessing a big part of the reason is that it totally reverses the powerDynamics… and a bit of revenge thrown in as you said
Absolutely agree, Dickless!
Ms.Becky,
I totally Love Feminization and Humiliation!
First full face makeup, and then dressed up in bra, panties, garter belt, and thigh high nylons! Then a pretty dress to wear!
All along while You tell of Your plans to have on my sissy girl knees sucking plenty of Big Cocks for Your pleasure and entertainment!
One item I would also Love to wear while on my sissy faggot knees for You, is a pair of Pink Knee Pads!
I Love a Beautiful Woman with a Dirty Mouth and being Verbally Humiliated by Her is a HUGE Turn On for me!
Respectful,
Cock Sucker 🐓🍭💐🙏🙇♂️🙏
This is sooo hot! I would love to have you perform for me
As always, so interesting, informative and insightful!
Thank you my love!
Wow, i agree with all the other girls, very hot post again ty Ms Becky, i would love the thought of standing in front of you in silky panties while you slather my lips with your sexy gloss, mmmmm so hot, ty for that thought , i actually had a stripper girl put her clear lip gloss on me once it was amazing during a couch dance lol xoxos
Mmm, Viola. I love where you are heading with this. We should talk….
Oh Ms Becky, i am truly finding you so Amazing, with the way you are into the feminization etc / teasing me so tenderly, i love that, we should talk soon, i am finding you so sexier n sexier, ty for being so sweet n sexy always !! xoxos
Awww, thank you so much for this sweet comment. I would love to play with you!