I want to share with you a few of my favorite things relating to femdom phone sex, and I thought I could do it in a really fun way. I want to share with you a few of my favorite pain sluts, sissy bimbos, giantess lovers, tiny, cocked people, and the degradation lovers… because I have to tell you- I have been blessed with some filthy fucking playmates since I started Femdom phone sex. And I am a generous Mistress, willing to share some of my most delightful sessions and sluts. You’re welcome in advance, lol.

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Before Femdom Phone Sex

So many of you may have some of the details of how I became the highly sexed, sweetly vicious Mistress that stands before you today, but I wanted to give you a bit more background of what I was up to before I was doing long distance domination. I was always a highly sex, highly curious and highly rebellious little pervert. I jump into sex with an enthusiasm unrivaled by most of my peers, and learned early the power that my body, my face, and my presence gave me over the least fair of the sexes. I quickly became known as naughty cock tease, a selfish lover, much preferring to have my pussy worshipped than to be on my knees. There has always been a playfulness about how I engage in sex, love, even life itself, and that playfulness and warmth tends to (hopefully) balance out my darker impulses… at least, thats what I tell myself. It wasn’t until I met a gf who begin to preach about the power of milking every last drop of pleasure from a man whilst sucking his cock that I really honed in on some of the power of leveraging their pleasure against them, and began exploring some of the power accessible when I play submission.

You see, from a truly feminine perspective, there is some power in holding his manhood between my teeth, my ability to give him so much pleasure, or conversely, so much pain. There is power in coaxing his seed from his manhood, stealing from him the source of his power, taking it inside of me. I do intellectually and spiritually enjoy power dynamics in a really whole hearted way, able to play from both sides… which some caveats, of course. For my powerful, masculine, thick cocked mens, I am happy to be the submissive, accepting, adoring… for a time. I tend to be very dominant and strong willed outside of the bedroom, so I do enjoy exploring my softness & sweetness upon occasion, and very much enjoy the pleasure associated with submission. It makes a nice change from my predominantly dominant side. I enjoy the power of submission just shy of how much I enjoy the power of domination with the few men who resonate as worthy Doms to play with. Also, even in my submission, there is a power struggle brewing just beneath the surface, the tension of give and take, of submit or dominate.

However, dear reader, it’s important for you to know that my softness, my sweetness, my feminine submission IS NOT FOR YOU. I like you to understand that it is there, but just out of reach for ones such as yourself. It helps you to understand your role, understand your place in OUR dynamic. Not everything is for YOU, right? When I am engaged in femdom phone sex, my appetite is whet for your submission, understood?

Becky takes on Miami & Ms Becky is Born

From there, I moved from the country (oh yes, I was raised in the sticks, friends) to the big city of Miami, and begin stripping in short order. I have to be honest with you, the experience of being on stage, worshipped and adored, with men throwing their money at me, only sharpened my desire for power and control. I become very proficient at “playing” the sweet stripper while I coerced and controlled them, extracting fromt hem exactly what it is I wanted- be it attention, adoration, or their treasure to make my life more comfortable. The feminine dance of claiming power within the patriarchy has always contained a kernel of deceptiveness, hasn’t it? And I, sadly, was not the exception. But the club definitely introduced me to an entire underbelly of filth, degradation and perversion. There were so many options to choose from- sex clubs and dungeons and swingers clubs and fetish parties, and munches. Even the regular clubs were devolve into a primal crowd of swaying, sweating bodies. There were just regular clubs where I would see completely nude men and women being paraded around, and there was one guy who I saw at several alt clubs who was tied into an X with his hand and legs tethered, and his cockmeat tightly bonded and tied to hold him still. He was actually the first true submissive I was able to play with. I walked over to him, took his tortured meat in my hand and gave him a nice hard squeeze while I watched his face absorb the suffering I was giving him. I played a lot in my younger years, but at the same time, I pursued my master’s in counseling, and when I finally launched my career, I begin to walk back some of my more public playtime. Currently I have a small group of consistent playmates and most of my in-person activities are confined to them. So, although I wasn’t yet offering professional Domme services or doing femdom phone sex yet, I was certainly starting to explore the yummy possibilities.

Enter Femdom Phone Sex and Long Distance Domination

After I backed down from a lot of my public facing play as I launched my career in mental health counseling, working in state agencies, nonprofits, community mental health centers, and private therapy practices. you know, the sort of places that a Femdom Mistress with sex slaves and orgies may not be entirely welcome, had they known what a dirty girl I was. For a long while, I contented myself with my play group- our core is about 8 people, with 4 of them being *MY* dynamic. I guess I would be considered a polypansadisticsapiosexual, if we were to pin it down in today’s lingo… loosely interpreted, of course. I have a long term situationship with my mans Jason, who really would be what most would consider my “boyfriend” (I fucking hate that word), and 2 submissives who I would count as ours- mine and Jason’s, with one other dominant who likes to play with us cause we are awesome. This worked beautifully for many years as I progresses, attending occasional scenes and fetish parties (which are almost PG here, and something that isn’t as stigmatizing if I was seen by someone I know professionally), and having great play with my own little team. However, the more time went on, the deeper my cravings for domination were. I played around on Fetlife and Craigslist and other apps for playmates, and took some side work in professional domination services for a while, but it was hard to balance everything happening in my life at that point so I could never really commit enough to form really meaningful dynamics and relationships, but it was fun. So then, by pure happenstance, I met someone who was connected with a very reputable, very ethical and VERY FUN company called LDW and the rest, as they say, is history.

A Few of My Favorite Femdom Phone Sex Sessions

So now, for the meat and potatoes of it all- a few of my favorite things! This will be just a few of my favorite sessions, and it does not, it cannot, cover all of the fantastic callers I play with, so please don’t fret if you aren’t mentioned.

YASS, Size Queen, YASS.

Mmmm, I have always enjoyed sex toys and exploring all the naughty delights we have available to fill up our toy boxes with, but I have to tell you I have had a couple of great sessions recently exploring some high end, massive size queen toys. And it always stimulates my filthy mind and gives me some great ideas to stretch our holes for my use later on, too. So it both fun and educational, which I love. Another side note about these sessions- OMFG, I love the sapiosexuals, yall. Like…. a meeting of the minds, breaking down the universe together, exploring life- that’s as likely to get me all excited as anything else. Plus, this freaky little hussy turned me on to some GREAT sex toy sites!!!

My Little Runaway

And that brings me my sweet little runaway sissy girl- she always tries to run away from me and I always hunt her down and catch her. She’s mine, you see. And truly, she is at her happiest when she is submitting to me, even if she tries to wriggle away. What she doesn’t know is that I am a bit of a witchy women, and I simply call her back to me whenever she strays. But you gotta love someone that makes you work for it. But at the end of the day, she will be as she always is- MINE, and nothing will ever change that. She is so special to me, and even though she runs away, she always cums home to me again. I do so love coercing my sissy girl back into my arms and kneeling at my feet.

My Filthy Jerk Off Junkie Pain Slut

So listen, I am writing this entry to get a little relief- I have been denied playing with my pain slut I adore due to scheduling difficulties and inability to make our schedules work so now I will work out a little frustration with some public humiliation and reminiscing about some of the great times we have had together. So first off, this pain slut is very attractive. So I get a bit of eye candy in the sessions, and I love a man in glasses and make him put them on to please me. He always starts sessions on his knees, naked, with his glasses on for my pleasure. Washboard ab, a nice cock, and a cute accent seal the deal. Now, this jerk off junkie cannot keep his hand off his cock so he is constantly stroking, pulling and tugging himself while confessing what a pain slut, jerk off junkie, what a filthy cum eating slut he is- how he cant think of anything else but me, how he tosses and turns in his bed, feverish with lust. So with this particular pain slut, he makes video clips of him carrying out my orders so I get to see him in all of his slutty glory. Our core activities include cock and ball torture, with him beating his ballmeat & cockmeat with a shoe, or a wooden spoon, or some other torture implement, al the while confessing what a dirty fucking jerk off junkie he is. He saves up his loads for me, and I frequently make him gargle it and hold it in his mouth for long periods of time while he carries out my CBT commands like a good boy, lol. I do this knowing how much he HATES it, maybe not in spite of it but because of it. I make him ride thick cucumbers, sometimes bouncing on his yoga ball to entertain me a bit more. I make him eat up the load that I so graciously allow him release. All in all, I have a really great time weaponizing his lust against him and he has a great time doing what the fuck he is told to do.

My Sexy Ginger Who Takes Cock Like a Champ

Next up is my sexy ginger, who I also struggle to see due to scheduling difficulties. But oh my word, I don’t know that I have ever seen someone ride cock better than this slut. Very handsome, easy on the eyes, with a gorgeous body and a nice cock. He has a bit of switch in him too, so both the submissive side of me and the dominant side of me respond to him. But his ability to take cock in a primal, animalistic fashion sets the bar for me. Also, great conversation, and swagger- he is fun and sexy and completely unashamed, unabashed, and wholly masculine whilst taking cock… which is wildly arousing. A butt slut who is easy on the eyes, very motivated to please, and takes cock like a champ? Yes, please.

The Sissy Bimbo Slut I OWN

Next up is my sissy bimbo. I have worked with her since almost day one of working at LDW, and we hit it off immediately. What I love about my control over her is eradicating her will to resist me, turning her into not only into a sissy girl, but into a depraved, lowly, mindless, brainless, sissy bimbo slut who obeys instantly. She has some restrictions on how she can play, which is so disappointing to me- as she continues to deny me what I want most from her- complete and total submission. To encourage her continued progress, I have enlisted the help of my Femdom friends to ensure that she is constantly aching, hurting, desperate for release but never satiated. Bimbo girl becomes sloppy in her submission when she is granted a release, so we quite enjoy keeping her on the razor’s edge of arousal without release. She finally broke down and begged me and Mistress Demi to allow her to cum, even going as far as to use her faggy voice that she is so shy about. We laughed and laughed and then had her edging throughout the session to increase her arousal. I will leave it up to you to conclude whether or not we let this slut cum- feel free to leave a comment on what you think we did to her, LOL.

My Sweet Tiny Man!

I love Giantess fantasy calls- I find the perspective exploration truly fascinating and it engages my intellect and creativity. Plus it really delivers the control I like in my fantasies, but at the same time, it allows me space for my warmth, my caring, and my nurturing. I am very sadistic, but I am also very warm and kind and I enjoy having spaces available to explore ALL of me. Now there are also some great punishments for the giantess world, and it definitely empowers me to have ultimate control, so all in all a great time. This particular caller is always 8″ and he previously lived as a full size man who was my boyfriend. The sessions are so fascinating because we are tracking the evolution of our relationship, what would change, how we would approach and solve the problems that arise from him tiny statute, and how I would take care of him.

My Ignore Slut

There is truly something about the coercion and cruelty of an ignore fetish that warms my heart, and the dynamic of someone paying me to simply exist is always a wildly sexy trope for me. I have one ignore slut who calls me up and takes my break with me, sitting patiently on the phone, by himself, thinking about me and staring at my pictures as I command him to(I even send him naughty pics during session, just to spoil him). I make my lunch while watching tik toks, and once its ready, I sit down to watch tv for my break. I don’t lower myself to engage with him- that’s not what our dynamic is. Our dynamic is for him to simply purchase paid sessions with me in which he is denied any playtime, while worshipping silently on the other line. Sometimes he calls me when I am working on my next podcast episode, or my latest blog, or scripting my latest custom audio.

My Filthy Stroker

Oh but this filthy stroker is a fucking nasty boy. He loves really filthy, dirty girls like me and isn’t afraid to show it. He strokes his cock over and over, with a somewhat miraculous refractory period. Sometimes we drain his balls 3-4x/day, and he is always hungry for more. I love a playmate who is as filthy as me, and who talks really raunchy. I mean, I can’t even write some of the filthy, degrading things we say to one another here in public, but let me assure you, we scratch each other’s itch for sure.

Final THOTS… 

Now, do these encompass ALL of my favorite and filthiest femdom phone sex sessions? Not even mildly, sexy friends. These are simply the first few that flew into my head. But I would love to hear back from you about some of YOUR favorite sessions as well. And if you ever want to book a session with me but want to touch base about what you are looking for first, feel free to email becky@enchantrixempire.com. I have some sexy audios & products out and offer smoking hot custom audios that bring your dirtiest, smuttiest fantasies to life.

Some of my current favorite themes are:

• Naughty Therapist Role Playing
• Exploring Sex Toys/Size Queens
• Naughty Confessions & Stories
• Cock Sucking & Fucking Skype sessions
• Ignore Calls
• Giantess Calls & Fantasies
• CBT & Pain Sluts
• Sissification & Bimbofication Training

More Fun Links to Explore 

About Ms Becky- updated!

Ms Becky’s Store & Audio Clips

Ms Becky’s Schedule- updated!

Follow Ms Becky on Twitter (@MsBeckyEnchants)

Connect with Ms Becky on Skype 

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