Small Penis Humiliation- as featured on KINKology: the psychology of kink podcast!  Please note that this analysis first aired on KINKology on 4/5/24 entitled “Small Penis Humiliation”. Additionally, if you want to brush up on the nervous system, which is featured in this analysis please check out KINKology: Nervous System 101. 

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And in case you didn’t pick up on all the clues, we are discussing a very special topic today- Small Penis Humiliation. So, the psychology behind SPH has always been fascinating to me- as it serves a crucial function, which is ultimately some measure of self-acceptance, self-love. It’s so interesting, isn’t it, that the shame, allowing yourself to wallow in degradation can result in the polar opposite impact of radical self-acceptance. So, let’s get into it.

Does Size Matter? Sadly for you SPHers, yes. 

So, let’s talk cocks and the obsession with big thick juicy cocks, which… bffr, I am sure you can understand, right? When a thick cock enters me, stretching me past my limits, making me take every inch of them, there is such a feeling a transcendent femininity, of fulfillment, yeah that’s it- internal fulfillment seems to be such an apt phrase, doesn’t it? For the itty bitties out there, I know you have to know that us gals need a lot of cock to satisfy us, yes? Size does, indeed, matter– at least when it comes to a woman’s pleasure.

So, what happens to the men who God hates- I mean, you know, the ones born massive…LY disadvantaged? What happens to them? We all know that sex, and above that, acceptance & belonging are core needs for a human being. This has been proven over and over, since humans first sat around fires. Matter of fact, the need for belonging is actually very related to our nervous system, which we discussed last week. Our ancestors, early humans, faced lethal consequences when their tribes turned away from them. Our nervous system, the brilliant but primitive system that it is, still equates rejection with a literal threat to our continued existence and acts accordingly, right?

So, we have tiny-cocked people who surely got the message regarding their inadequacies at all stages of life, right? In the locker room, in the restroom, standing next to thick cocked real men, during their first sexual encounter when they disappointed their first women- we KNOW they know, right? So tiny cocked people carry a lot of shame regarding their inadequacies, right? I mean, any of the real men out there, who have man sized cocks, I am sure you could sympathize with the horrors of having a shameful little nugget instead of some man meat dangling between your legs, right?

Small Penis Humiliation & The Need to Belong 

So, in terms of our nervous system- or rather the nervous system of a tiny-cocked person- their nervous system is responding to a threat of nonexistence for being rejected by their tribe, right? We learned last week (bimbos, please take note- there will be test on this later) that we have 4 possible responses when facing a threat- fight, flight, freeze and fawn.

THE TINY-COCKED IN THEIR FIGHT REPONSE

Let’s talk about the fight response and our small-cocked people- come on, we all know those angry bitter tiny-cocked guys who turn into women haters (just cuz we want to get our pussies stuffed by some real men)? Right? So…. we have their number. Now in terms of the effectiveness of their techniques- how many of them do you think get pussy… or if some woman takes pity on them and throws them a sympathy fuck, how long do you think they can keep it? So, the response is understandable but the effectiveness damned near nonexistent.

THE TINY-COCKED IN THEIR FLIGHT RESPONSE

Then let’s look at flight- non engagement with the threat- this is the person who avoids gym locker rooms, who sits down in restroom stalls instead of chancing urinal comparisons… and who definitely, above all, does not pull down his panties and show women that tiny, itty bitty clitty they have between their legs. So, in terms of preventing embarrassment- this isn’t a horrible response- right? If nobody ever sees that tiny unsatisfying cock then maybe they will think you have the cock of a full-grown male, right? They won’t know what a fucking loser you are, right? However, let’s talk about what the real threat it- attacks on our sense of belonging, our sense of self-acceptance, which is fully intertwined with our safety, from an evolutionary standpoint. With this survival response, it may be effective at avoiding short term rejection but only because you institute a policy of lifelong isolation… which results in the actual threat of harm being all but certain, right? Flight is a typical response… but one that seems to be fully ineffective as well.

THE TINY-COCKED IN THEIR FREEZE RESPONSE

Let’s discuss freeze, yeah- much like flight, the state of non-action we see in a freeze response is not going to help your bottom line- out the gate, it’s a fully ineffective solution likely to result in increased anxiety and isolation, negatively impacting your sense of belonging. Also, it’s worth noting again, for those of you who may have missed it last week, within polyvagal theory the freeze response makes up one half of the survival response that is designed to help us dissociate from lethal threats- so we experience as little of that experience as we can, yes? Also, note that a freeze state and a state of depression are pretty much the same thing- we think of depression being a fully different disorder as anxiety, but really, a lot of times depression can be a freeze response in the anxiety cycle. So, we see some poor results from the first 3 responses, right?

Sidenote: please know that the name of the game is to live life from a place other than our survival responses. When we are in our survival responses, our amygdala is lit up, and our prefrontal cortex shuts down, making rational decisions out of reach. The name of the game is to make rational decision in alignment with our rational, conscious goals, right? Yet we are driven by these subconscious urges and responses that turn off our rational brain. Our survival responses are not bad or good, right or wrong, they are either effective (something that brings us closer to our goals) or ineffective (something that brings us further away).

THE TINY-COCKED IN THEIR FAWN RESPONSE

But now, let’s look at our final response- the fawn response- fawn, like a young deer. The fawn response is our threat appeasement response, our people pleaser instincts. Our tiny-cocked people who are living life from the fawn response will throw themselves on the mercy of their community, right? They will acknowledge their worthless cocks, they will seek to make themselves useful, helpful and desirable in other ways.

“No Ms Becky, I know that you would never want to ride my disgusting tiny cock and that you deserve to be stuffed full of thick juicy cock, but if you want you can mock me, make fun of me, degrade and demean me. Ms Becky, you can make fun of my cock, show it to your friends so they can all point and laugh”.

So now- what IS the impact of the fawn response? Well, here is where this response distinguishes itself a little bit- this response seems likely to result in some measure of success in establishing a community, right? I mean, the kink community has its arms help wide open to the small- cocked people, if not their legs wide open, lol. But in terms of carving out a little niche where they may have some value, even if it’s only comedic, seems to be possible when we apply the fawn response. Thus, their small penis humiliation kink takes root, and is reinforced by community approval.

A Word of Caution for the Small Penis Humiliation Crowd

So listen, I want to definitely discuss the small penis to cuck to cock sucking pipeline in a hot second, but I also do want to get a tiny (tee hee) bit serious too. I meant what I said about community, belonging, and self acceptance being core needs for human beings. I love it that our small cocked people have found fun and inventive ways to transform their shame into fodder for cum puddles, truly I am. I think its an actually very healthy response, providing that you are able to truly play with it and not let the sharp arrows pierce your sweet hearts, yeah? There is always some yummy tension in humilation, and its kinda like riding the razor blade between pleasure and pain. But be mindful, and check in with yourself internally, and make sure you do have somewhat of a healthy self-concept and that you ENJOY the pain, at least most of the time.

Tiny Cock to Cuck to Cock Sucker Pipeline 

Alright, tiny cock to loser cuck to cock sucker pipeline- let’s get down to the nitty gritty. This is one of my favorite dynamics! I love all things cucky, and will be discussing it in depth later down the road. Having a tiny cock is nowhere near the only reason that people become cucks- there are so many layers with cuckolding, but for the purposes of today’s discussion I will be confining myself to the loser cucky boys with tiny cocks, ok?

It should be surprising to exactly no one that the tiny-cocked people are fucking obsessed with cock, right? To them, their entire value is reduced down to their tiny cocks, and they truly value those big-cocked boys, yeah? While they only have those bitty cocklettes between their legs, they become fucking obsessed with how those big cocks operate- how they stretch the walls of my pussy as they slide into place, how we gasp and moan as they lodge themselves into us fully, how we sound as they fuck us into the mattress with their big manly cocks.

Our pipeline begins with becoming obsessed with large cocks, and how the real men are able to fuck pussy with those meaty fucking cocks. And the knowledge that the function of a man is to keep his partner satisfied, right? Women will kick you out of the relationship tribe if you cant figure out how to make her eyeballs roll back in her head, won’t she? So, what is a small-cocked loser to do, gentlemen? Well, if he lacks the equipment to please his woman, well, he better find someone who can and maybe make himself useful in other ways. So, he does exactly that- finds a way to make himself fucking useful by supplying his woman with a constant rotation of that good dick, you know? So he becomes a dick slinger for her, right? And in return, if he is a good boy and finds some really thick cock for her, she may even let him watch and play with his dinkie little dickie by himself in the corner.

But the final piece of the puzzle is when that obsession with thick, meaty cockmeat takes over. These guys get so hot at the thought of having a big cock that they will take it anyway- or in any hole- that they can get it. But essentially they become super turned on by those big boy cocks that they start craving some for themselves. Plus, it plays into the whole a man has to take care of his woman, and getting that cock nice and hard to give your wife some pleasure. Meanwhile, those thick cocked boys just love putting a faggy little cocked guy on his knees and humiliating him, using him. And btw, don’t mind my language, I hope you know all of my sweet nicknames are said with love, yes? Besides, it IS a little faggy to suck cock, yes?

So therein lies the small penis to cuck to cock sucker pipeline. Well, it’s been quite a journey with you tonight. I hope you enjoyed this breakdown of Small Penis Humiliation, originally presented on KINKology: the psychology of kink on 4/5/24, which was aptly entitled “Small Penis Humiliation” LOL. Please continue to follow along every Friday when new episodes of KINKology are released on cockradio.com for more content, at the corner of geek and kink, lol.

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