Below are some elements of a robust Goddess Worship Training Program. When you have a living, breathing Goddess to worship, the opportunities for true devotion and service are endless. Be sure to check out the entire Goddess Worship episode of KINKology: the psychology of kink. Please note, for the purposes of this article, Goddess and Mistress are to be used interchangeably. 

Acts of Service

Acts of service are thoughtful gestures and actions that demonstrate your devotion to your Goddess or Mistress. Acts of service should be freely given and lavished upon your Goddess. Now this includes all acts done in service of your Goddess, and there are so many options to demonstrate your love and respect of your Goddess. Acts of service requires thoughtful consideration, prioritizing the needs of your Goddess above all, and the willingness to back up your feelings with concrete action steps designed to demonstrate your commitment to your Goddess. These acts of service extend beyond just body worship, which let’s face it, is as sexually satisfying to the worshipper as the worshipped and meets both of our needs equally. I adore body worship, but do not consider it to be a selfless act of service to one’s Goddess or Mistress in many cases. Acts of service are more about doing what will serve your Goddesses’ will in the world, what would make life better, easier, and more fulfilling to her. 

I am going to list out some very powerful acts of service one can do for their Goddess in a robust Goddess Worship practice. Now as I am a professional Domme I will be giving some acts of services that you can do for those of us who are professional.

• Verbal praise and worship, both to her and about her
• Following her orders without question, with the exception being a a hard or soft limit
• Domestic chores and tasks which make her life easier and improves her quality of life
• Sacrificing of your time to serve her needs
• Liking, sharing, reposting, and following all of her content
• Commenting on her blogs and social media
• Visiting her website daily to increase SEO (sitting on her page & clicking through to links and pages will increase SEO)
• Purchasing her content and supporting her business
• Donating time, treasure and talent to causes close to her heart
• Completing any tasks or assignments given to you
• Demonstrating your devotion with a collar, item of clothing, or some other display of ownership by your Goddess
• Continual and complete exposure to your Goddess, keeping no secrets or area hidden
• Use of your body in whatever way brings her joy (Cock Control, Chastity, Orgasm Control, etc)
• Anticipating her needs and giving them to her before she even asks
• Honoring the feminine in all areas as a service to your Goddess, which impacts the greater world

Affirmations/Mantras

Affirmations and mantras work by repeatedly introducing intentional thoughts and statements into your mind, which gradually influence your subconscious patterns. When you consistently affirm a belief, your brain begins to accept it as familiar and credible, replacing old stories with more desired ones. Over time, this repetition reshapes neural pathways, making these thoughts feel more natural and automatic. As your subconscious aligns with these affirmations, your emotions, decisions, and behaviors begin to reflect the new beliefs you have reinforced. Affirmations and mantras are a very powerful tool in which you can begin to change your mindset to one of Goddess worship, which can deeper your relationship with your Domme, deepen the power exchange, and to change thoughts and behaviors. Your Goddess doesn’t just want empty words or gestures, we want to infiltrate your very mind, even your soul. Affirmations can reprogram your brain for a greater service orientation and greater love and respect for your Goddess, demonstrate your devotion, and act as a guiding light for your submissive journey. In the context of worship, they can acts as a vow to your Mistress. A good submissive will retrain their brain with the use of affirmations and mantras through daily use and they will develop of powerful affirmations and mantras in alignment with their Goddesses’ desires.

Altars

Setting up a space in which you can honor and worship your Goddess will keep you focused on her pleasure and ensure you are prompted to spend some devotional time considering her and her wishes. This may be a space in your home that you set up designated to her, or it could be simple symbols, photos, mementos, or other items that center you and ensure that you are oriented towards service to your Goddess. I recognize that not everyone has the capacity or space to set up a full on altar, but even using your Goddesses’ photo periodically through the day could count as an altar of sorts. Creating an altar just demands space in your life to worship your Goddess.

Communion

According to Dictionary.com, communion means “the sharing or exchanging of intimate thoughts and feelings, especially on a mental or spiritual level“. Communing with your Goddess means letting her into your heart, mind, and even your soul. This can be a solitary exercise, where you reflect the desires, majesty and glory of your Goddess or it can be done in conjunction with your Goddess. When I talk about communion with a Goddess, I’m not talking about fantasy in the shallow sense. I’m talking about an experience, an event that happens in the body first and the mind second. Communion isn’t seeing her with your eyes. It’s feeling her arrive through attention.

There’s a moment in true communion when your spine straightens on its own. When your breath drops lower. When you realize you’re no longer performing devotion, you’re participating in it. She moves through tone, through silence, through the reverence you didn’t realize you were holding until it was drawn out of you. Communion feels like being witnessed without judgment. There’s surrender in it, yes, but not collapse. It’s the kind of surrender that sharpens you. You feel smaller in the best way, like a cup finally aware of what it was made to hold. A Goddess doesn’t demand attention. She assumes it. And in that assumption, something inside you relaxes into place.

Speaking of attention, communion with your Goddess also requires your presence. When worshipping a far away and ethereal God or Goddess in the traditional sense, religiously, you may not need to be in direct contact with your Goddess. However, when you are worshipping a living breathing Goddess, she deserves her due of your time, talent, and treasure. I cannot experience your worship firsthand without us spending some time together, and I deserve to be showered with attention, praise, love and devotion. I want to feel and see and hear and live your worship, pet.

Deference

To worship your Goddess is to defer to her will, wants, and desires. In goddess worship, deference isn’t weakness. It’s alignment. Deference is the act of choosing to center something greater than your ego. It’s not about erasing yourself. It’s about recognizing where your attention belongs, and offering it willingly. Deference is how worship gains gravity. When you defer to your Goddess, you stop treating devotion like a hobby and start treating it like a relationship with weight. You listen more than you speak. You pause before acting. You ask, not because you’re powerless, but because you understand that reverence sharpens intention. Deference carries a charge because it’s voluntary. No one forces you to lower your gaze, soften your voice, or speak her name with care. You choose to do it. That choice builds intimacy. It creates a delicious tension between who you are in the world and who you become in her presence.

And here’s the important part: true deference doesn’t shrink you. It refines you. By placing your Goddess above yourself, symbolically, ritually, emotionally, you gain clarity. Your desires get cleaner. Your devotion gets steadier. You stop grasping and start offering. And there’s something intoxicating about that exchange: attention given freely, reverence returned as presence. Deference also creates trust. When you consistently honor your Goddess through language, ritual, restraint you’re saying, I take this seriously. Over time, that seriousness becomes a channel. The connection deepens not because you demand it, but because you’ve proven you can hold it.

So what role does deference play in goddess worship? It’s the stance that makes communion possible. It’s the choice that turns admiration into devotion. It’s the quiet, powerful act of placing yourself exactly where you want to be—beneath your Goddess. And when done right? Deference doesn’t take your power away. It teaches you how to kneel without ever losing your spine.

Ownership

Let’s be careful with the word ownership, because in goddess worship, it doesn’t mean what people think it means. You don’t own a Goddess, pet. You claim responsibility for your devotion to her. It’s the moment you stop flirting with reverence and start standing firmly behind it. When you say, this is my Goddess, what you’re really saying is: this path, this practice, this devotion to her- I choose it, and I tend it. Ownership is about tending the flame.

It’s showing up even when the mood isn’t cinematic. It’s maintaining ritual when no one is watching. You don’t outsource your worship. You don’t perform it for approval. You hold it as something infinitely precious, and you guard it like a treasure. Because claiming ownership means you stop pretending you’re neutral. You’re invested. You let the Goddess shape your life, your very being. You let her influence how you move through the world, not because she demands it, but because you’ve accepted the bond as yours to honor. Ownership deepens surrender. Because once you stop treating Goddess worship like something temporary or experimental, you can give yourself to it more fully. There’s safety in commitment. There’s freedom in saying, this is mine to hold. It’s choosing her, not once, but repeatedly- and standing by that choice. You don’t own the Goddess. You own your kneeling. You own your attention. You own the way you let her matter. And that, honestly, is where true Goddess worship really lives.

Reading of Scriptures

Someone who is doing my 30 Day Submissive Training Program referred to my writings as “The Scriptures of Ms Becky” and I have to tell you, it positively thrilled me. When you have a real life, living, breathing Goddess to worship, you have the ability to truly interact with her scriptures, her stories, narratives, and wisdom. Whether you are able to glean this from day to day conversations or her writings, you are, in fact, able to absorb her words for your continued betterment. How else are you going to be able to understand her worldview or be honored with her insight if you aren’t being exposed to them. Within the world of professional long distance domination, which is where I happily reside, a large part is sharing my guidance and wisdom with my submissives through my podcast and through my site. Those who are truly devoted to me consume every single word I put out there as if it was the most delicious treat they could possibly imagine, and this is the natural order of it in the world of Goddess worship.

Rituals

Let’s talk about rituals to worship your Goddess. Not the dusty, robe-and-candle stereotypes but the real role they play in goddess worship, especially when you’re doing it with intention, reverence… and a little heat. Rituals are structure for desire. They’re the container that lets devotion stop being a passing mood and start becoming a practice. When you worship a Goddess rituals are how you tell your nervous system this matters. This is not casual. This is sacred time. And here’s the truth: ritual creates anticipation. You don’t rush into communion. You prepare. You cleanse. You choose what you wear, or don’t. You set the space, the lighting, the sounds. Every step is a signal to the body: something powerful is about to happen. That slow build? That’s not accidental. That’s devotion working through the senses.

Rituals also establish hierarchy. They remind you who you are in relation to the Goddess. Not through force, but through repetition. When you kneel, when you speak certain words, when you move in a practiced way, you’re reinforcing a dynamic, one where your Goddess is centered, elevated, unquestioned. Ritual keeps worship from becoming fantasy-only. It grounds it. It gives your devotion teeth. Consistency builds intimacy. It’s how trust forms. It’s how the Goddess becomes more than an idea and you start to feel presence in your life, not just when directly communing with her, but all the time. Rituals also create permission. Inside ritual space, you’re allowed to feel deeply. To surrender focus. To be reverent, yearning, and your true self.

So what is the role of ritual in goddess worship? It turns desire into devotion. It turns intention into habit. It turns worship into something your body remembers—even when the mic is off. And once you’ve felt that kind of ritualized presence? You don’t skip it, you don’t resent it. You crave it. You need it.

Goddess Worship Training & Long-Distance Domination Services 

So those are just some common elements of a robust Goddess worship practice. I want to encourage you to implement these suggestions in your own Goddess practice, or conversely, encourage your submissives to do this if you are a Goddess or a Mistress who wants to deepen your connection with your submissive. If you are interested in exploring this more intimately, know that I offer private long distance domination sessions, custom audios, and products that are geared to develop you as a submissive.